Sunday, June 1, 2008

The Girl - Part 3

What is real feminism? Is it what you read in Femina? Is it what to achieve academic success and professional success. No. Working in an MNC on onsite is not success. That's survival. The need for survival. Day by day survival. The real feminism is the motherhood. Feminism means motherhood. Feminsm doesn't mean to show off your figure in the shopping malls. Western civilization, MTV, these magazines on feminism has destroyed Indian Culture. The normal city girls read these magazine these tv and learn culture from them. I was talking to a gal, I asked her what's your hobbey? She said "meeting guys". Thank god she didn't say "mating guys". But in near future they might say. If they can say meet then they can say mate also. Be it however by a stupid mistake. But they can say. And a time will come when they gonna say. The distance between meet and mate is not much. Even Manhatten distance is not much. Lol. It was a shock for me. Infact a news for me. I was on Pluto after hearing this. This was not happening few years back. It's happening now. It started suddenly. Globalization ruined our culture on the cost of technical development. Such hobbies are kept by actress of Hollywood. Basically, bollywood actress learns from Hollywood actress. And city girls learn from bollywood actress (in Hindi movies). So, knowledge in transferred from Hollywood actress to bollywood actress to city girls to village girls. From hollywood to a village. That's a big chain of knowledge transfer. That's one result of Information Technology. Information is everywhere. Few days back a highly educated gal used a F words on her blog (That post is deleted now). That was another news. Indian is definitely progressing. F words are used in USA most. And they are the most developed country. So basically, F words are the sign of development. That girl is highly successful both academically and professionally and she used F words. That's the progress she has made. A big applaud to her.
I had said earlier - Everything has a cost associated with it. There is nothing free in This universe. Only existence is free. Except existence everything has a cost associated with it. You cant simply just improve at zero operating cost. You have to pay a cost to improve. Those who are not progressing they don't pay the cost of improvement. They are fine. That's how it get balanced. You can improve, you can do wonder but, at the cost of something. Let me put an example. Say there is a woman A who is CEO of a big billion $ MNC. There is another woman B who is a simple housewife who doesn't have much hunch in her life. Woman A is always busy with office work and meetings and travelling. But she has a maid to take care of her kids. Woman B simply stays at home and she has ample time to spend her time with her kids. Because she doesn't work. Now which woman is more successful? A or B? To my view B is successful. Woman B is 10000000000000000000000000000000000000000000times more successful than A. Because, she is doing real feminism - The motherhood.

4 comments:

lover said...

Nice write up. ur views are very different from the Gen Now MEN. I am amazed and relieved to see tha there r still ur kinda men.
Jai Gurudev,
Ruchi.

Shubh said...

Thanks for your comment.

Did you read other parts of the post. There are 2 more.

I am afraid that Indian Culture will be extinct on the cost of learning western civilization.

रेवा स्मृति (Rewa) said...

@Shubh, nice writeup...

What you have written about feminism is not completely right..bcoz all are not same...we can not judge or define things seeing one side of a coin.

Anyway, for me both are not sucessful...they r not successful completely!

Shubh said...

The point I was trying to make was - "Motherhood is the real feminism".

@Rewa, What is your definition of feminism?