How to define a girl? What is a girl? A girl is nothing but full of compassion. Girl's biggest ornament is her shyness. If a girl is not a shy she is not a girl. She is something else. Every female is not a girl. The modern girls do not shy. The reason is they try to act like boys. They wear like boys, they speak like boys, they think like boys and the behave like boys. There is not harm in that. But they lose female personality being a female. Neither they can't achieve total 100% male personality. So their personality is mixture of male and female personality. Girls in villages are still maintaining their female personality. Far better than city girls. City girls are mixture of male and female personality. That's why they don't land anywhere. This is due to ongoing rat-race to raise their social status. Which is perfectly okay keeping a note that they had been treated unequally.
In India, where we worship goddess Durga as the goddess of power, there females are treated so unequally. What a hypocritical civilization. I don't need to give examples to make this post more interesting. Anyway just to add it, why did Ram question Sita's character when both Ram and Sita were separated from each other? If Sita can be questioned then Ram can be also questioned in a similar manner. No, it's not my bias towards Sita because Sita was a maithil girl. This was not expected from Maryada Purushottam Ram. That's the typical example of male dominant society. Ram may not be Maryada Purushottam but Sita was definitely Nariottam. Nariottam means the best among females. Infact, I do not like the character of Ram. Ram is bounded by Maryada. He is not free. He has to meet social expectation. That's why Ramavtar is not considered as a complete avtar. Krishnavtar is called purna avtar. In him Brahman descended in it's totality. That's why you will find krishna is not much worried of social obligations. He will steal curd, butter. He will break promises. He will run-away from battlefield. He will marry almost 16000 girls. He will steal bathing girl's clothes. Many things. But, Ram cannot behave like that. He is bounded of Maryada.
Girls most favourite word is "No". Sometimes big a "Nooooooo...". They need to stop being dependent. There do exist fundamental problems with them. At least boys can go to forest and meditate. So far, no female ever went to Himalayas to meditate. They can't go. They think many things are happening. Although nothing is happening. They are brought-up with the mindset that "all boys are bad, don't talk to them". Boys are brought up with mindset that "Follow brahmcharya, do not even look at the girl until you marry". This happens in India. And this prevents love to sprout between them. The so called bf-gf you see in the shopping malls is just slightly more than the carnal attraction. Love is dormant there. Unless humanity learn how to love each other we would never have peace. Like so far we have not witnessed peace. At least I did not. Either we fight, or we do preparation for the next fight.
Those sages who incorporated Brahmcharya in vedic society could not imagine what's gonna happen in 20th century. I do believe the real meaning of brahmcharya is totally contaminated. Brahmcharya literally means whose action is like Brahm. It has nothing to do with a girl. However it does boils down to that to some extent. But not fundamentally. Fundamentally, one who is firmly established in brahman is the real brahmchari. And that he can do irrespective of how many gf's he has. Krishna is one example.
Our education should not impart us mathematical forum ale, equations rather should prepare us to cultivate the love.
Great love cannot happen in the same gender. You would never find two great female friends. Impossible. They can be good friend. A very good friend. But not a great friend. It has to has to in the opposite gender. The advantage they have is they are so close to divine. Their curiosity is like a child. Look at Gargi. Only a child can ask such question to Yagyawalak. The behaviour wise there is not much difference between girls and children. Both are delicate. Both are innocent. So, they should be protected.
4 comments:
nicely expressed! shyness is no where sir.i will try my luck in remote village for lazo! happy new year!
Hahaha...village girls most probably won't be working but fully equipped with gurlie qualities. City girl will work. So there is a tread-off. And choice is urs. If you are extrordinarily lucky you might get gurlie qualties in the city girls ;)
Hi Shubh, Nice post indeed. As you have mentioned above that Girl's biggest ornament is her shyness. I do agree with this. Anyway, Can I know from you the defination of SHYNESS? Also i feel this shyness will remain till they are protected in our society, isn't it?
2ndly well said that girls are like children...its very true. :-)
Hi Rewa - Thanks for your comment.
Hmm...difficult to define shyness :)
Shyness is internal beauty. The real feminism. Usually people take shyness in negative terms. Like she is shy, she has no courage she is introvert etc. It's like this - which is more powerful between stone and flower? Stone is dead. Rock hard. But the flower is delicate, scenty, beautiful. Flower has beauty, stone has no beauty.
Innocency doesn't always lead to shyness. Shyness is something when you have very precious gift which others don't have. You are carrying something very precious inside you. Of which other's have not much idea. But others are curious to know about that. You experience internally something so elegant that when someone enquires that with you, you get shy.
Correct? Please feel free to defer :)
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